Bill Paro, Alyssa’s father-in-law, has been a coach and a teacher at Rock Creek Community Academy, as well as working a number of other jobs there for nearly 20 years.
Sara Hauselman, principal, said the school has known the Paros for a long time. Will graduated from there, and Alyssa and Liam are in the school’s preschool and kindergarten programs, respectively.
She said when the school found out one of their own was facing a battle with cancer, they were quick to take action.
“They’re just real entrenched in the whole works there, that’s why we decided to do this,” Hauselman said. “We heard a couple of things about people helping them. It’s a shame that people she doesn’t even know are helping her, we [decided we] needed to help her.”
The school began selling shirts of their own to send proceeds to Alyssa and her family. Hauselman said shirts went on sale for students, and on the following day they were allowed to wear regular clothes instead of uniforms, the hallways were filled with pink T-shirts.
“We do things like this whenever we hear of a need like this, but this one’s really hit close to home,” Hauselman said. “Part of what we try to teach the kids is community service. We have a big fundraiser in the spring... but this is just a little bit closer to our hearts.”
The school also encouraged fans of the basketball team to wear the shirts at the junior varsity and varsity boys’ game on Thursday. Several in the stands had the shirts on.
Jennifer Brown, dean of students, said in a week, they expected to sell 75 to 100 shirts. All 275 were purchased.
“The students don’t necessarily know Alyssa, but they have a connection to her through coach Paro,” Brown said. “Any time anyone sees a cause like this, they come out for it.”
She said along with the $16 sale of the shirts, some people handed over a $20 bill and did not ask for change. In one instance, someone gave $100 for a shirt.
She said not including donations taken up at Thursday’s game, the school raised about $2,000 for the Paros.
Lisa Cundiff, a middle school math teacher at Rock Creek, attended the game with her pink shirt on. She said her seventh-graders were hosting a dance Saturday night and decided to give the proceeds to the Paros.
“My class just felt the need to really help them out,” Cundiff said. “They were going to use the money for a trip to Chicago, but this is a cause they thought was more important.”
Paro said she knew the school had something planned for her family, but didn’t know what it was. She said she would have attended the game Thursday if she and her family weren’t already headed to Wisconsin.
But she said she was moved by the gestures all the same.
“I couldn’t believe it, it was so much emotion,” Paro said. “I don’t normally get caught speechless. I know this is a rare case, but I didn’t see how I was special enough for them to do this for me.”
Though she still has more treatment ahead of her, Paro said she wants to continue informing women and men about symptoms they should look out for through her video blog.
In the meantime, her school family is just thrilled to have a hand in helping her.
“They’re a family that’s been affiliated with this school for about two decades,” Cundiff said. “They have always been there to help our school and the kids. Any way we can repay them and help them is well worth it.”